We can’t change others; that much is true. But that doesn’t mean it’s wrong to want someone to change. We just don’t want to get stuck there at the wishing spot. The right people will want to make changes for themselves as we grow together over time.

If you’re on a growth journey, it’s natural to be attracted to friendships and relationships with people who are at least receptive to discussing self-improvement.

Wanting more for ourselves and others, having values and standards, and changing for the better are good things! This is how we grow connection with the right people and strengthen love that is right for us.