Toxic: You don’t care about us. You’re selfish and only care about yourself. You think you’re better than everyone. Why can’t you see how much we love you?

Boundaried: I care very much. I don’t share my thoughts with you because you have not shown any capacity to care about my feelings, especially when they are different from yours. 

You make accusations and assumptions that have nothing to do with how I feel, and refuse to listen to me. This doesn’t feel like love.