Small Bites.

More than a meme. Less than a blog post.

  • Your Best was Terrible
    I blame you. Not for everything. Just for the things you actually did. You may have done your best. It was very bad. It was unsafe for children. It’s pointless to ignore that in my healing. It certainly wasn’t up… Read more: Your Best was Terrible
  • Adulting
    A new part of my healing process is revealing itself more and more. It’s a topic that has generated numerous blog posts and magazine articles and morning news segments. It’s the ubiquitous term and the actions known as “adulting.” My… Read more: Adulting
  • Contrast
    Some people think I’m healing, boundaried, insightful, and compassionate.  Some people think I’m damaged beyond repair, destined for loneliness, and judgemental.  When I see such large contrasts in the way other people perceive things, it’s reassuring to me to just… Read more: Contrast
  • Toxic Assumptions
    Toxic: You don’t care about us. You’re selfish and only care about yourself. You think you’re better than everyone. Why can’t you see how much we love you? Boundaried: I care very much. I don’t share my thoughts with you… Read more: Toxic Assumptions
  • My Inner Child’s Sketch Pad
    When I realized I had food security, after many years of neglect and humiliation, my inner child drew this food pyramid. This was several years after food security had been achieved in my life, and it was still difficult for… Read more: My Inner Child’s Sketch Pad